Teens often want to have the freedom to
make their own decisions. When they have a problem, try not to jump in and
solve it because this is a skill they need to develop. Be available to your
teen when they want to talk and ask a few questions to check in on how they are
doing and understand their point of view. Come up with a plan together for
unexpected situations like needing a ride home and handling peer pressure. When
you are fair, approachable and predictable, teens learn to over time to be
responsible, think about the needs of others and are less likely to have
behavior problems. Some teens may want to talk to someone other than a parent.
Help them make connections with other trusted and caring adults to build their
network of support.